Legacy messages

Some words are too important to leave unsaid.

Whether you’re facing a difficult diagnosis, caring for someone you love, or simply want to plan ahead, we can help you record the things you want your family to hear. In your own words, in your own voice, for always.

Tina wiping away a tear during her Memory Room session

“I just want people, when they remember me, to laugh.”

Tina, recording her story with her daughter Kat

Tina came to The Memory Room with her daughter Kat. There were tears, and a lot of laughter. She talked about her life, the nights out they still laugh about, and how she hopes to be remembered.

Kat will always have that conversation. Not a eulogy written by someone else, but her mum, telling it her way.

What people choose to record

There’s no right thing to say. Only yours.

Some people know exactly what they want to say. Most don’t, and that’s completely fine. We’ll help you find it.

i.

Your life, told your way

The story of your life, so your family hear it from you and not second-hand.

ii.

Words for the big days

A message for a wedding, an 18th birthday, a first baby. Days you’d want to be part of.

iii.

Your own eulogy

What you’d want said, said by you. Some families play it at the service.

iv.

Letters to the little ones

For grandchildren who are too young to remember, or not yet born.

v.

Your wishes

The things that matter to you, so your family never have to guess.

vi.

Simply, “I love you”

Sometimes that’s the whole film, and it’s more than enough.

How we work with you

Gently, privately, at your pace

We come to you

At home, in a hospice or care home, or in our quiet studio in Motherwell. Wherever you’re most comfortable.

At short notice

When time matters, we’ll do everything we can to come quickly.

No pressure, ever

Short sessions, plenty of breaks, and you can stop at any time. Nothing is rushed.

Someone beside you

A family member can sit with you or ask the questions, or one of our interviewers can. Whatever feels right.

Completely private

Your film is only ever shared with the people you choose. Never online, never in our marketing.

Kept safe

If you’d like a message kept for a future day, we’ll talk with you about how to keep it safe until then.

Talk to a specialist

Start with a conversation

Every situation is different, so we don’t ask you to pick a package. Tell us a little about what’s happening and one of our specialists will call you back as soon as we can, at a time that suits you.

Or call us directly on 07888 869284, or email [email protected].

You can also get in touch on behalf of someone else, a parent, a partner, a friend. We’ll be guided by you.

For hospices, care homes & funeral directors

We’d be glad to work alongside you

If the families you care for would value this, we’d love to talk about how we can help, quietly and respectfully, alongside the work you already do.